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Six Ways To Connect With Our Kids

Six Ways To Connect With Our Kids

Taken from my “Real Moms of West Michigan” segment on Star 105.7 every Tuesday at 7:05 AM… We have never had more information about parenting available to us, but often we’re still baffled about how to deal with situations with our kids. I think that is because the more important part of parenting is not WHAT we do but WHO we are to our kids. All the parenting skills in the world can not compensate for a lack of connecting with them as a parent, as an authority and as the on

Can Time-Outs Hurt Our Kids?

Taken from my weekly segment on Star 105.7 with Tommy and Brook… A key to our children’s security is showing them that they have value. Today I want to talk about a way that we might be DE-valuing our children without even realizing it. Time-outs. We all know that there are times our children need a minute or sixty to process and consider their actions, but how we give them a time out could make all the difference. We have to be careful that when we give a child a time-out we

Helping Our Kids Deal With Separation Anxiety

Helping Our Kids Deal With Separation Anxiety

In the world of winning ball games, honor roll and weather related Facebook status’s many moms are not letting on that there is a deep and painful struggle going on in their homes. Children are dealing with anxiety at alarming rates and its affecting families, schools and the lives of good Moms everywhere. At some level all kids deal with anxiety, but when it hinders our families from functioning in a healthy manner, we need to pay attention and help our kids through it. I w

Earning God’s Love ~When Minstry Gets In The Way

Earning God’s Love ~When Minstry Gets In The Way

Whether or not she was trying to earn His approval, love or just impress everyone; she missed the point and I know that I have too. Anybody else? Mary knew that the most important thing happening was at His feet. Listening, learning and resting in His love. Shouldn’t this be easy?? Shouldn’t it come naturally?? Yes, I think it does, but many of us have forgotten how to live instinctively. We know in theory that we should put our family first, that God has given us the gift of

From Angry Moms to Happy Moms ~Part 1

From Angry Moms to Happy Moms ~Part 1

Taken from my segment with Tommy and Brook on Star 105.7. Tuesdays at 7:05 AM. First off let me say, I get it, I understand. I’m with you in the trenches of this one friend! We can all relate to being an angry mom at times and it doesn’t feel good to us or our kids. There is no doubt we have a tough job- I think it’s the toughest job there is. The kids are bickering, they’ve disobeyed or talked back and we’re yelling or worse…and then we feel awful. We feel like a failure. Fo

Want Smart Kids?

Want Smart Kids?

From my segment on Star 105.7 with Tommy and Brook… Listen to segment here: Real Moms: Want Smart Kids? We know that the library needs to be our friend all summer, but did you know that the smart kids are doing more than reading? (Please library loving people, forgive me…you know I would never tell them to really put down books…but just take a deep breath and open your hearts 🙂 ) That’s right, they’re doing crafts! Creativity is just as important as reading. So, give them so

What Do Our Kids Want From Us?

What Do Our Kids Want From Us?

Obviously an endless supply of Sourpatch kids candy, DS games, new bikes and a new iPhone would be top on their list, but apparently our kids want a few other things from us too. I’ve been talking with Tommy and Brook on Star 105.7 for the last several weeks about survey results of what else our kids want from us. You can listen to my segments on my Star 105.7 page or read about them here: Come into my bedroom at night, tuck me in. Come say goodnight. Another good idea is to

Do Schools Kill Our Creativity?

Do Schools Kill Our Creativity?

I watched this video this morning and just had to share it. I think this resonates with every one of us. If for no other reason, watch is for the laughs, he is so funny. But this is also for: All the moms who worry about their kids not doing well in school. All the students that feel they’ve been put in a box or they just don’t fit in. (And may I add, good for YOU!) All the parents of children and the kids wrongly labeled ADD or ADHD. What if. What if, God just has a differen

Spring 2013 Praise and Coffee Magazine is here!

Spring 2013 Praise and Coffee Magazine is here!

Thank you to so many amazing women (and one man) who grace the pages of this issue! We do not have print subsciptions available yet but you can order the magazines individually here: Praise and Coffee: Praise and Coffee Spring 2013 Connecting women to encourage each other and inspiring them to draw closer to God. And for all of you wonderful Pinners, here are some Pins for you to share! Also available on my Pinterest page: Sign up here to receive an email when each new magaz

Moms, What You Are Doing Matters

Moms, What You Are Doing Matters

Taken from my segment on Star 105.7 in West Michigan with Tommy and Brook… Last week as I spoke to a MOPS group I looked at the tired eyes of those moms who feel buried in laundry and overcome with planning dinners and driving to practices and doing homework (on the way to school because the night before they said “no, mom I don’t have ny homework”), and I just want so badly for them to grasp how important their roles are in their child’s life. I have 4 kids, three are grown

Is Shame Based Punishment Effective?

Is Shame Based Punishment Effective?

Taken from my segment on Star 105.7 with Tommy and Brook… Is publicly shaming our children an effective way to bring a positive change when they’ve made serious mistakes? Experts and this real mom say no. Kids need to be able to trust that their parents will watch out not only for their physical well- being but also care for their emotional health. Our job is to provide loving guidance not humiliation that demeans our children. It’s ok that our kids feel guilt over their bad

New Year’s Resolutions for Mom

New Year’s Resolutions for Mom

Taken from the Star 105.7 Real Moms of West Michigan segment: Photo by KarieMurrayPhotography.com It’s a new year and I know that many moms have made the traditional New Year’s resolutions to eat better, lose weight, quit the bad habits and all that, but NOW it’s time for the Mom resolutions. I have 3 mom resolutions that I think we all should commit to: Say yes more. Say ‘yes’ more to playing with your kids. I know what a challenge this can be with a busy life, but next time

Christmas Gift Ideas

Christmas Gift Ideas

Taken from my “Real Moms of West Michigan” segment with Tommy and Brook on Star 105.7… I know that you are so organized and probably have all your shopping done, right? OH wait this is the REAL moms segment…and if they are anything like me…they are still a few minutes away from having it all wrapped and under the tree! My tip to get ready for Christmas is: personalized gifts! It’s the perfect time to order those personalized gifts for Christmas. Picture frames, mouse pads, mu

Best Apps for Moms And A Trip To the Studios

Best Apps for Moms And A Trip To the Studios

I couldn’t wait to get up to Grand Rapids for Artprize, it’s the largest art competition in the world and it’s only a half hour from my house. I live in the country now but I’m from Grand Rapids so I love getting back to the city! Denise and I took it as a great opportunity to have coffee at Schuler’s book store and then enjoy lunch at Cinco de Mayo on the Monroe Mall. We stopped in to the studio to do my “Real Moms of West Michigan” segment on Star 105.7 with Tommy and Brook

I Prefer Nice People

I Prefer Nice People

I like nice people. They’re easy to get along with; they don’t stomp on your feelings by calling you a bad mom. They don’t eat your sandwich at the office or talk to your coworkers behind your back. They don’t tell you that you look nice on Sunday morning and then inform everyone in your Bible study that you dress like their Grandma. Nice people are nice. But then there are those others in life, there’s one in every office, family and small group. They are not nice. They hurt

Wrapping Up the Five Love Languages

Wrapping Up the Five Love Languages

Today we wrap up the series of Real Moms segements on the Five Love Languages of Children. The five basic love languages that the book talks about are: Physical touch Words of affirmation Quality time Gifts Acts of service This might help you figure out which love language speaks love to your child the loudest: First, pay attention to how your kids show you love because our kids are likely to express love the way they want to receive it. Are your little ones giving you lots

Back to School, Simple Tips for Stress Free Mornings!

Back to School, Simple Tips for Stress Free Mornings!

Do you hear it, the hallelujah chorus ringing out this morning?? Back to school means that moms can once again go to the grocery store without say “No” 38 times and when we clean up the house at 9 AM it will stay that way for at least 5 hours. Straight. Seriously, for 5 hours in a row, you won’t have to pick up anything that mysteriously appeared on the floor or find any dishes that you didn’t use piled in the sink. Back to school also means back to crazy busy mornings, can y

Tips for Teaching Our Kids Honesty

Tips for Teaching Our Kids Honesty

I’m not talking about those times when our little ones asked someone in their 60’s if they have a baby in their tummy. Not good. This is not the honesty we’re going for, that’s a whole separate issue. I’m talking about teaching our kids not to lie. Lying in our home has always been one of the most serious offenses our kids could commit because it’s something that- when a child becomes accustomed to lying about things, they become known as a liar and if people don’t trust you…

Thank You to Lauren’s Birthmom

Thank You to Lauren’s Birthmom

I don’t know your name or what you look like. I imagine that you saw the tiny disformed face of your new child and it brought you to tears. You opened her pink lips and saw that the cleft was also inside the roof of her mouth. You may have feared this with every tiny flutter those months you anticipated seeing your precious baby. You knew the immense cost and care that would be needed, and understood that the only hope for a good life would be in the hands of someone else. Pe

Preventing the Summer Slide

Preventing the Summer Slide

Here is a link to some great age appropriate book suggestions too! And then, call me and we’ll go to the beach and eat ice cream! Click the “Star 105.7” tab above to hear today’s segment. I do the ‘Real Moms of West Michigan’ segments on Star 105.7 with Tommy and Brook every Tuesday morning around 7:05 AM. If you are not in the West Michigan area you can listen on iHeart radio #parenting #womensministry #moms #motherhood #MOPS #Star1057 #summerreading

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